Says he’s separated but l eads you on to believe he’s ready and serious about long term relationship. Beward the ‘separated’man this one is just using you.
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He gets on dating web sites he talks to women on other sites. He flirts with women every where he goes and I’m told about it. I find pictures and phone numbers on his phone.

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He will lead you on but he is married. Stay away from this man.

This man is married and never told me. I believe he does this to many women. He is bored in his marriage and wanys excitement. He lies to women,to get what he wants so be careful.

This man is a chronic liar. I found out the hard way. He’s been seeing a married woman Lynn Fischer Directer of Everest School Pittsburgh pa for a year now that I know of among others In the 4 years we’ve lived together. he cheated on his ex wife their whole 16 year marriage. He takes advantage of women with his good looks for their money, he told friends about Lynn having a good job and coming into money if she divorced her husband after the sale of their big home and the high paying position she has at Everest School. He is currently living at the V A homeless shelter at the V A so that he can stay out of jail due to his retail theft and driving under suspension while on probation legal issues. He’s always at the gym looking for his next victim ! He’s a real piece of work this one. Ladies beware !!! Don’t let the good looks fool you.

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Johann Schart > Mothers Fighting Drugs
Jan 25, 2012 ·
BORN AT 27

Johann Schart

I was like any other kid; I was a dreamer and also had dreams. Looking back into my life and talking to professional’s over the years, I realized that my memories were compressed and I have very little memory; before the age of 12. I have and still do have a brother; who is five years younger than me. Dad was in the military and we traveled quite often. It seemed like every two years; I was getting a new friend. So finding myself and my identity quickly became a game. Mother was trying to do her best, with the hand she dealt with in her life. Around the age of five years old, I was sexually attacked, by an old friend of the family. Old friend would equal no longer a friend. Ghostbusters the toy was my first addiction I can remember, when dad was stationed in Nebraska. So I was set-up with Avoidance Personality Disorder, which I would have to figure out, years to come. My father was an active alcoholic at the time, while mother was dabbling with her own addiction. All in the same breath, we all had our own mental addictions also. My parents separated when I was around six years old.

Dad took over us boys around when I was ten years old. Mom was in the midst of her own addiction and found herself in prison. We moved to South Topeka, in Kansas. Dad was 29 years old or so. I have to give it to the man; he tried everything possible to raise us. We were always fed and never were neglected. However I became dad’s solider, while my younger brother watched. Nothing at all against the military, dad was raising me like a little Marine. It was a rush waiting for him at the house. Listening to the motorcycle coming in, from blocks down the road; was its own addiction.

I would always act up in school and receive the consequences at home. I never would understand, until later on in my life, that I was addicted to chaos, which was tied to abusiveness, from my father. The idea of having control, which was the abuse, was my own addiction. He did what he could to raise us. Around the age of 12, we were stationed in Groton, Connecticut.

This point in my life is where I can fully remember or started to. I became a sports player in school and started befriending people. Girls were among my greatest addiction, at this point in my life. I will never forget the first time I became active within having sex with myself. While in middle school, I would obsess over it all day. It wasn’t until when the act would happen, until I would feel relieved. Again, having that control from my fear of the unknown; was my own addiction. I was also labeled of having Attention Deficit Disorder, which dad decided to place me on medication. After about two and half years of schooling in Connecticut, we were transferred back to Kansas; where I would find the party or that control; I always yearned for. The chains of psychotropic medications awaited me also.

I came back to Kansas, from a very diverse school to an all-white/rich school. I tried to get on the sports team, right off the bat. After about 2 months of being benched, I decided to quit. Even when I was schooling most of the kids my age, dad didn’t make enough of money, for me to play; if anybody can follow that. Anyways, I found something that made me complete, something that never told me no or made fun of me, for being a quite kid: marijuana. I will never forget my first bag I bought. As soon as I first bought it, I tried to re-sell it, for profit. The idea of control and power was evident again, at the age of 13. I soon got out of middle school, dating every woman around and fighting almost weekly, to keep my composure with gang activity.

In high school, I was a total lost soul. I walked the hall-ways like a ghost. Truancy among other school violations was on my to-do list, daily. At night, I would skip out and run the streets. Dad was usually drinking himself to sleep. Breaking into cars, stealing, fighting, hustling whatever; was my evening rituals. I will never forget the time where I was brought into a doctor’s office, for evaluation tied to my behavior. I was around 13 years old. After about 20 minutes of chat with a doctor, I was placed on several different types of medications, to help my bi-polar; which a doctor felt I had. For the next 14 years, I blamed all of my faults on this bi-polar label.

From the ages of 14-19 years old, nothing really changed. I was on probation at the age of 15, for multiple violations, from a high speed pursuit chase, fighting to truancy. Around the age of 14, I started using substances nightly. The quantity and quality changed frequently. I felt the control when under the influence. I didn’t feel or worry, when I was high. My social life was consumed to low-riders and gang activity. Around the age of 15, I was involved again, for possession of a hand-gun and wound up in the hospital. I even pulled a gun on a Police Officer. An angel must have been present that night, for I was not shot. The insanity of my addiction was strong. The day after I got out of the hospital for drug use, I was right back into the “party life.” I attended my first Narcotics Anonymous meeting, only to have too many reservations at 15 years old. Little I knew that same meeting eventually became my home-group, years to come. To this day, it is still my home-group.

I eventually was kicked out of the white/rich school and shifted over to another school; where I felt more at home. The only problem was, I was too far out there, with my substance use. I dropped out of school with a girlfriend. I received my General Education Degree, in July 2000. From there, I sold daily and worked full-time. After a short six month stretch, I broke off with my girlfriend, not knowing what the problem was: me. Never did I want to look in the mirror and stare. Thinking that the medications was an underlining issue, was not a concern of mine either.

At that time, I was wearing high dollar watches; showing up to parties that required metal detection and thought; I was on top of the world. In the end, I was a frightened little boy, in grown man’s body. I knew I had a problem. So I joined a church because of a friend who was always happy. I abstained from all mood and mind altering substances, while in the church setting. After about 3 months into this religion, I got out. I still felt empty. I was living with my dad at the time, when I was 20 years old.
After about 2 months after breaking off with my high school girlfriend, I went into straight up addiction. My friends didn’t want anything to do with me. My drug contacts didn’t want me around either. I started shooting dope and became a worthless drunk. My party crowd became just me. A friend I was working with at the time, wanted to start selling. Long story short, I was arrested in the Topeka, Kansas Museum parking lot, at 10:30p.m. I was arrested with possession of narcotics and intent to sell. After my over-night stay at the local jail, my parents awaited me upon release. My mother was currently involved with Narcotics Anonymous. She wanted me to ride with her, after my release. As soon as I jumped in her car, she asked me if I wanted help. She mentioned of a rehab in Topeka that could help me. I immediately started crying and said yes to going.

My first clean date was 5-5-2003. I entered rehab, not knowing what I was getting into. I went to bed crying most of the time. I woke up chain smoking outside and trying to pick fights while there. My first meeting attended within my first recovery, was amazing. The people were nice; sounded like they had issues like me; even wanted to talk to me. After my 30 day vacation, I got out and went into a half-way house. From there, I stayed a short 2 months and eventually moved into an Oxford House. (The term Oxford House may refer to any house operating under the “Oxford House Model”, a community-based approach to addiction) While there, I became involved with recovery and got really involved. I was being sponsored, sponsoring, going to meetings and was very active. With me still taking the medications and having my addiction active in my life, in other areas of my life, it was still very unmanageable. After about a year clean, I met a woman.

She became my new addiction in every aspect of my life. I quit going to meetings, calling my sponsor and stopped praying. This woman became pregnant after about 4 months of dating. I moved to her town and we got a place. I tried to work full-time, while she would play house, at the house. We separated after about 2 years of dating. This would become my first ex-fiance. I then came back home to Topeka, Kansas, at the age of 23 years old. When I got back, I stared working again and paid my child support. I started hitting the drugs and alcohol again, very strongly. This time, I was using more and drowning out my feelings. I would blame my faults on my bi-polar. I was taking over 1,900 mg of medications daily, to cover up my bi-polar and also used. I still ignored the true problem, which was me and the idea of; only working a half of Step 1, my first time in the program.

After my second trip to detox, I decided to go back into an Oxford House. While there, I got yet another year clean, with several trips to the mental ward. I was in constant thought that I had a huge mental issue. I didn’t stop and realize the porn addiction I had, or the exercise addiction I had. So when my endorphins were feeling high in the back of my head, I got off on that, in more than one way. In other words, I was still at a half of Step 1. Even though I was working Step 4, my second time in recovery was still not healthy. So around 18 months clean, a sponsor had me cornered, with my sexual addiction. I would come to meetings, lie to him about my addictive behaviors and skip out. I eventually ended up using again. Not much to share about the third time out. I was homeless, living in my car and working for a family business.

Around late 2009, I got my own home. A few of my latest bottoms include: counting change in my grandparents drive-way, at 3am, walking out of a D.U.I another time, weighing over 280 pounds off medication usages and mentally drained. I was sick and tired of being sick and tired. I got clean in June of 2009. I stayed clean and sober for the next 2 years. I did what was suggested of me. I went to meetings, was being sponsored, working the steps, opening meetings, got involved with service work and such. I was dating ex-fiance number two, at the time. I went to therapy sessions weekly. We broke it off, due to my uncontrolled behavior. I blamed in on my bi-polar, yet again. However, after about a year of seeing my therapist, while ex-fiance number two was gearing up to leave me; I was told in a therapy session I was never bi-polar. My therapist shared with me that I may have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. During our separation, I started to detox myself off the cocktail, which I had taken for 14 years.

So yet again, I came back to Topeka, Kansas; from Lawrence, Kansas. One of the first things I did when I came back was; I got a Psychological Evaluation completed. The findings of the report were accurate from my therapist. I never had Bi-polar and had Avoidance Personality Disorder; tied to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
This time, I was clean for about a year and a half and off my c***-tail of medications. I moved back into an Oxford House, for the third time. This time was different. I worked a solid Step 1 with a Sponsor from Baldwin City. I wasn’t on the medications and was feeling, at 100%. I became very hostile and wound up in a mental ward. I moved out of the Oxford House and by choice; became homeless for the next year. I lived on roughly 9 couches, in 9 different houses. I lost my car that died on me. I started biking and was staying clean the whole time. I even jumped in college for a hot second, while I was home-less on my bike. I changed my clean-date from 6/6/2009 to 6/18/2011. The main reason I did this was due to having a mental breakdown, with a girlfriend, at the time. Later on, I would realize that it was my Avoidance Personality Disorder shining, not some manic mood—swing that a doctor would have called it. She had a prescribed medication for anxiety and I took it, for my anxiety. Even though I had this medication prescribed to me previously, I felt that I could take it. Sponsor # 6 did not agree to this. He shared with me that I was abusing drugs, even when I was taking something that I could get from a doctor. So after about a week or so, I decided to change my date.

The problem all along has been me. Not the towns I was living in; the kind of people I was around; not my jobs; not you or anybody else but me. I am currently out of college with no degree. However, I wake up every day and say my prayers. Currently I
am on Step 3 again and am sponsoring. After about 14 years of medication usages, I almost 2 years free, for the most part. It feels great to feel, freely. I still go to my home-group when I can and try and live in today. Service work is among my daily routines, in certain ways. Without the Steps, I would be a lost soul. Jail, Intuitions or death; is what I heard. I tried them all and only found one way that works, which is recovery. I go to any A meeting out there, to better myself. Negative behaviors still creep up in me. Today, I try and keep a healthy balance within myself, to counteract my addiction. Reading all kinds of literature about addiction and attending even SAA (Sex Addicts Anonymous) for a bit, has helped me out tremendously. I might not be the man I want to be, but I am not the man I used to be. Thank you to the Twelve Step programs and my Higher Power, for giving me a life to live.

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In the past 4 yrs this man has hit for sure 2 women. He is mentally unstable. He keeps thinking he he is fine and doesn’t need help. He will hurt someone again someday. He has sexual issues and is a lair. He uses women and will emotionally abuse women. He is enabled by his family who make his mental illness worse. He drives truck because he knows that no one wants to be around him. He has lost many friends over the years and many of them keep their distance. Your children will not be safe around him either. Save yourself and RUN RUN RUN!

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Doug Peterson Defence Glendale Phoenix Kings Beach Tahoe City began texting my wife back in November and over the course of 90 days exchanged over 6200 texts. Then he made plans to meet her at an upscale hotel and had sex with her. This slimy human being has no concern for the children’s lives he’s destroyed or the damage that follows his sexual urges. He is a man without any moral character and if this is who you want working for you, or protecting your loved ones, or associating with, then do so knowing the kind of person he is. 602 330-2181 602 843-6669

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Peter A. Pinkevich of Salida, CA is a serial cheater. A liar and a thief. I loved him with all that I ever could. I trusted him with all that I had!!!
We were in a long term relationship for almost 13 years. I found out that he was having an affair with someone I knew and it had been going on for nearly 10 months. While he laid around unemployed for three years he found himself with way too much free time! He began an affair with this woman, Dee Dee Wilcox and continuously used me, “Ms. Moneybags” for his financial gain. He had me working and spending my money upgrading his house all the while cheating with another woman. Wait!!! He was also soliciting homosexual sex with several men on Craigslist personals. He is a user, emotional abuser and thief. He stole my gold out of our safe and sold it at a local jewelry store. He took her on trips and I was stupid enough to trust that he was with his good friend or family. And, yes I paid for their entertainment, unbeknownst to me. I believed him when he said he loved me or when he complimented me, which he did do often. I was such a damn fool! He is a serial cheater because he admitted to me that he had previously cheated on his wife of 17 years, with various women including his friends wives When I would say, “Once a cheater-Always a cheater”, he would use his manipulative, persuasive speech to convince me otherwise. He did show me a lot of love and respect, albeit fake! I now know it is and was just the way he is. Very deceptive!!!!!!! He is a very shallow, self centered person. I remember how turned on he was by Ally McBeal!!! Wow, that should have been a clue! He was turned on by men, not women! He uses women to cover this up. He claims that he is a true family man. He will open doors for you, fix your dinner plate and serve you, etc. He is a pro at deceiving a woman. He is an alcoholic, pot smoker and is now using cocaine.
He destroyed the family and the values and trust that we had built.
Steer clear of this manipulative man!

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Pathalogical liar that likely has no clue where the lies end and reality begins. With full permission and blessing to have flings, he chose to lie and sneak around.
Upon being busted he begged forgiveness, promised to try honesty and then continued to lie.

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A deeply intense connection and what seemed to be practical perfection.
Turned out to be all lies and deception.
The facade surpasses my conception.
Goodbye sir, I do not need your attention.

I hate to know you are hurting other women. I hate what you have done to me. I hate to know you are doing the same to others. Begging for me to forgive you, promising transparency and then sleeping at someone else’s house the same night? Amazing I believed anything you said. You are right, you never deserved me. I’m better than that.

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This guy is a loser who cheated on me twice that I know of. Why should you say away from him? Because he will kill you both inside and by giving you an STD and not telling you. He will treat himself and never say anything. By the time you figure out you have an STD damage will have occurred. He also went on trips to Hawaii and Colombia without saying anything until right before he left.

He had nasty texts on his phone about blow jobs and when you call the number a guy always answered but different guys. Is he a latent homosexual?

He cheated on his wife also and used hookers. She died an alcoholic. He obviously cares for one person, himself. Don’t be his next victim.

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Liar tells women he is divorced, and that his wife is a crazy ex, who is a stalker. He is very good at his lies and makes you feel like something is wrong with you if you question anything he says. He has an answer for everything, ask him to prove he is divorced and he keeps saying he will show you the papers, but never does. He also puts down his wife, trying to get you to feel sorry for him. He lived in Texas and is now in Washington state in the Seatlle area last I heard.

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I feel so bad for my dear friend, he caught her screwing around with the maintenance man at her apts. where she lives. Found out she has screwing around with several other men while in a relationship with my friend. He treated like a Queen and dhe mistreated him in many ways. Watch out for this w****!

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Christine Owens (Mcquaid aka Shelko other last names) cheats with married men she claims she can get them jobs meets them in cars for sex. A real low life! she ask them to donate money to support her daughter christian music career. She claims to be devoe christian bible preacher. She’s a skank from Georgia, Florida, Ri Nj

Nicole is why the center of disease control was created. NASTY, UGLY AS f*** s*** is married for the 5th time (to a loser) and fucks ANYONE she can! ULGY b**** has warts on her face, a fat a** and NO CLASS. This s*** even did her own dad! Nicole is a dirty, trashy, broke, drunk pos w****!

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Be careful of this lady and business. Multiple ex employees have gotten together and we are filing a lawsuit this week.
She owns a safety business in Red Deer and is a liar and a fraud.
Not only that but she sleeps with just about everyone. She lives with Kendall Thornton but had a sexual relationship with her office manager Megan Andriuk.
She hires incompetent staff so that nobody realizes she is doing things wrong
TOTAL SLEEZE BAG

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Smart guy in an lod merc from Constantia, telling lies to get money from you!! Beware!!

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She is a home wrecking cheater, that uses children as entrapment. If you live in Utah beware! All she wants is another baby and your man.

PLEASE be careful with this lady and company, she is a chronic drunk and steals from any client she can.
She is sleeping with 2 people at work, she is bisexual and in a relationship with Kendall Thornton and Megan Andriuk!
So far 5 old employees are getting together to sue her

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Oceanside California. Liar and cheater. Makes up lies to cover up lies. Will tell you are the only one he is seeing and wants to see. Frequents dating websites ex. POF and match.com. Is a surfer, makes surfboards. Mountain biker (previously). Has a cat named Charlie. Be careful ladies – I wouldn’t want anyone else to go through this. He seriously needs help – he’s clueless. Manipulating. Looking for a free ride. Loves pornography. He’s bald and drives a black Toyota truck. He’s very sick and toxic and complains about everything and I mean EVERYTHING.

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